I Don’t Believe In Damsel In Distress… I Believe In Women Who Fight Their Own Battle

There is no limit to what as a woman we can accomplish
Michelle Obama


Either make it or break it.

The choice is yours… the story is yours…. the beginning is yours and the conclusion is yours.

You have to be strong and independent; you have to know that the fight is yours. People will be there to support you but they can’t take the decision for you.

Either you cry now and regret later or fight now and have no regrets but feel satisfied that you stood up for yourself. It doesn’t matter if you win or lose the battle, atleast you didn’t give up.

The world will criticize you, society will talk, your own people will put u down and you may feel lonely and left out; but this is when you spend time with that one person who knows you better than anyone else, who knows your strengths and weaknesses, who will tell you the best things you are capable of, who will remind you of all your achievements in life…. and darling you know who that person is???  It’s the one whom you keep away from, the most..  IT’S YOU

Yes YOU!

Lady! Learn to spend time with yourself, you will meet millions to give advices but only you know what you have been through and how you want to handle the situation. Just draw yourself away from the world and talk to yourself, know yourself better and see how you’ll be amazed by doing that.

When you meet yourself see how you will have the courage to emerge like a tigress and face whatever comes your way without any fear of the consequences. Then no threat will succeed to stop you or put you down, you will just go ahead and not look back.

And then the society that once spoke ill about you will talk of your bravery and you will set an example to other women through your fearless avatar. Those women can be your mother, your sister, your daughter or some girl who faced the situations you once faced.

So ladies! Step up, dust yourself and move on.

Show the world what you’re worth girl! 😉

What’s trending? Dating Apps!

Love is a beautiful form of emotion that can be shared among two individuals or more.

But is love taken for granted in today’s time? Has it lost its value as compared to the past decades ago? From falling in love to dating and hooking up with or without commitment?

Love is a wonderful relationship between two people. Be it a parent – kid relationship, a daughter in law and mother in law relationship, a relation of friendship or an emotional bonding between two lovers. Love has numerous forms but in all its forms it is magical.

It is the year of 2017 … life has had some drastic changes in so many years, right from the time our ancestors lived, till date. We have evolved! There was a time when we used a stone grinder to make chutney (paste/puree), then years later electric mixer and now food processors.  No… I’m not diverting from my topic, I’m just trying to relate how in those times, things took time to evolve but with the present scenario everything is upgrading every single year like iPhone 5, iphone 5s, iphone 6, iphone 6s, iPhone, Season 1, season 2 and so on so forth.  With this moving speed of technology where are we as humans?

Well according to my perspective… we are at a time where gadgets and more useful than us. We are so dependent on electronics that we can live without our family but cannot live without them. We need to set an alarm to wake us up, phone reminders to remind us, GPS to show us directions, Whatsapp to chat with people and Facebook to become friends with strangers. Technology is the definitely the best thing that has ever happened to us but also the worst thing.

So let’s talk about love!  We have come to a stage where, from arranged marriages to falling in love…. now we depend on gadgets to help us meet “THE ONE”… no no… I’m not talking about shaadi.com or jeevansathi.com . I’m talking about dating apps like tinder, grinder etc. that is currently trending among the youth. I’m not against these apps and it’s just my thought not even an opinion… but really? Have we evolved so much that we need apps to find love, as if facebook was not enough (lol)? Is it out laziness or low self esteem or it’s just experimenting with new people or lust of the body?

Whatever be the reason for us to use these apps, we don’t need to go on a treasure hunt to get hooked. All we need is a phone with a dating app and some free time and Boom! You are hooked! These are just random thoughts that crossed my mind.

What’s next? Marriages and divorce apps (lol). Swipe right to marry. Swipe left to divorce!!! rofl